tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post7501798444871270579..comments2024-03-28T05:55:54.342+00:00Comments on Happy Muslim Mama: Are Small Families Better?Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-5691114819403369192017-07-29T11:18:53.328+01:002017-07-29T11:18:53.328+01:00A Christian missionary jealous of how big the nati...A Christian missionary jealous of how big the nation of Muhammed [p] is.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08200863175966633508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-28990238030041549992017-07-29T01:02:53.333+01:002017-07-29T01:02:53.333+01:00On a further note, I am one of 8 and proud of it! ...On a further note, I am one of 8 and proud of it! My father provided for us all, educated us, spoiled us with love and gifts. Not a drain on society but I believe we contribute hugely. My neices and nephews will also be doing the same InShaAllah A's Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03588982595788301396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-27242057102988599142017-07-29T00:56:56.643+01:002017-07-29T00:56:56.643+01:00Each child is a gift & blessing from Allah (sw...Each child is a gift & blessing from Allah (swt), being my neices & nephews, i have the pleasure of knowing each of these 5 children and Masha'Allah each has their own gift to this world. I found your comment in poor taste, hidden behind a computer. Please don't comment such narrow minded views, if you don't like what you're reading then unfollow and move on. Do not get personal. A's Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03588982595788301396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-19994380821115645552017-07-27T23:47:18.033+01:002017-07-27T23:47:18.033+01:00This comment is disgusting and if you are a muslim...This comment is disgusting and if you are a muslim you had better make tawbah and renew your faith because it sounds like you have serious problems.<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-40476720926724626352017-07-27T21:06:49.722+01:002017-07-27T21:06:49.722+01:00Is that a joke? Hidden by a computer, you feel all...Is that a joke? Hidden by a computer, you feel allowed to be disrespectful and mean to a person which is honestly sharing her point of view and talking about her children? I am sad tout read that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-85423952185713552017-07-27T20:39:23.377+01:002017-07-27T20:39:23.377+01:00Whether you "believe" it or not, large f...Whether you "believe" it or not, large families in developed nations use up a massive share of resources in an already overpopulated planet. Do your kids eat? Drink? Have clothes? Congrats, you've used up two-and-a-half times as many resources as a family with one kid. <br />There is nothing admirable about having a large family. On the contrary it shows lack of care, and tbh why complain about being so tired and having so many chores to do when you chose 5 kids? You are an educated and articulate woman and you knew what you were doing.<br />I find the "it was Allah's will" argument ridiculous as well tbh, again, that's just not the way works. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-56655474305411534362017-07-26T22:13:15.090+01:002017-07-26T22:13:15.090+01:00Assalam Alaykoum dear Sister,
Very beneficial pos...Assalam Alaykoum dear Sister,<br /><br />Very beneficial post as usual, and it came just in time for me but because family planning is on my mind these days.<br />To be honest I have 2 boys and would love to have a big family, with daughters and plenty of grankids in future but at the moment I feel the 3 are enough to manage and yes,to raise them as well as I can. I dont have any family around to help me out so I feel this is the sensible choice at the moment. On the other hand I know what Allah plans for us is unavoidable and He is indeed the best of planners.<br />But I would welcome a post,guest post, or comments as well about contraception experiences, because I am planning to use it. Not decided about the form yet, dont really like hormones but they are the reliable I guess. Please Sisters, dont be shy about this as our beloved Prophet saw. also recommend for the women what was available that time, to interrupt the intercourse. So it is definitely not haram and not something to shy about between us ladies, Inshallah. <br />Jazakallah <br />Maassalama,<br />KenzaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-44677154836651806802017-07-26T12:23:19.139+01:002017-07-26T12:23:19.139+01:00Such a good post from you sister. This is an eye o...Such a good post from you sister. This is an eye opener and make us realised the importance of good upbringing for our childrenAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08829792074575694933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-75750360965665125942017-07-26T10:20:29.321+01:002017-07-26T10:20:29.321+01:00Salam aleykoum,
Thanks for sharing this nice post,...Salam aleykoum,<br />Thanks for sharing this nice post, honest as always, and which sounds like a love declaration to your family. They are blessed to have you as a mum, a spouse, a daughter MachaAllah.<br />I completely agree when you stated it is not the size of the family which is important, but the relationships, the faith, the commitment to well raise your children.<br />I'll try to keep that in mind machaAllah: I have two daughters and I would have like a bigger family, but I don't feel that I can handle it...<br />LeilaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-9946536382028040092017-07-25T23:42:29.724+01:002017-07-25T23:42:29.724+01:00Ameen.
Jzk Khair.This is my first baby and first ...Ameen.<br /><br />Jzk Khair.This is my first baby and first pregnancy so im still partly in shock ( because i had accepted that i would probably never have kids and was content with that so this came as a shock) and also trying to educate myself and not focus too much on the difficulties ahead. Trying make shukr for this blessing from ALLAH and make this a positive experience Inshaa'ALLAH. Need lots duas.<br /><br />Ws<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-44927150705145128832017-07-25T22:26:06.491+01:002017-07-25T22:26:06.491+01:00Walaikam-assalam,
May Allah (SWT) make your pregna...Walaikam-assalam,<br />May Allah (SWT) make your pregnancy easy and bless you with a healthy baby insh'Allah. I remember how worried I was when I found out I was pregnant, I hope you have a serene and easy pregnancy insh'Allah. <br />Remember me in your dua's tooHappy Muslim Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-73116680743234544462017-07-25T22:24:35.487+01:002017-07-25T22:24:35.487+01:00Good to hear from you Elizabeth,
You have every re...Good to hear from you Elizabeth,<br />You have every reason to be proud of your boys and proud of yourself for raising them - no easy task to bring up 5 boys.Happy Muslim Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-19714892464385519802017-07-25T22:19:30.034+01:002017-07-25T22:19:30.034+01:00Salam Sis,
I'm grateful that you stop by to re...Salam Sis,<br />I'm grateful that you stop by to read. I'll try and take pics when I cook to add recipes, or better still, ask my sister-in-law for recipes - she's a fab cook alhamdulillah xxxHappy Muslim Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-86972641332334487152017-07-25T22:18:18.075+01:002017-07-25T22:18:18.075+01:00Salam Mahwesh, I agree, raising children is no eas...Salam Mahwesh, I agree, raising children is no easy task in any circumstances. I try to help my parents and I care for my disables mum-in-law as well as work and community commitments, so it is a lot of work all roundHappy Muslim Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-18123764884140411702017-07-25T15:36:55.704+01:002017-07-25T15:36:55.704+01:00Love your blog. Keep up the good work. Having just...Love your blog. Keep up the good work. Having just started my small family, I benefit a lot from advice and experiences you post on your site. I read all your posts and look forward to new ones :) more recipes would be great xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08200863175966633508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-23427706857681182242017-07-25T13:39:23.083+01:002017-07-25T13:39:23.083+01:00Yeah! but raising kids is a difficult job when you...Yeah! but raising kids is a difficult job when you don't have supporting inlaws and you have a lot of responsibilities.Mahwashnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-60900123648966681832017-07-25T12:14:49.421+01:002017-07-25T12:14:49.421+01:00Asa
Just found out in expecting after almost 10 y...Asa<br /><br />Just found out in expecting after almost 10 years and as excited as i am... i was also very worried and anxious. This post has heled me put things in persepective. Request duas.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-51413156394312719472017-07-24T23:50:20.702+01:002017-07-24T23:50:20.702+01:00I LOVE THIS! I live in a state where large familie...I LOVE THIS! I live in a state where large families are the norm. I have five sons, and my family is considered "average" sized. Here the comments are generally directed more at families with few children or none at all. I grew up not actually wanting children, but like you, I have felt blessed and proud as each one entered our family. I may grumble about them being difficult and loud, but I dread the day there is no longer noise. My boys fight, but I hope that they will defend each other if required. Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11749841601789946454noreply@blogger.com