tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post5502387085853911588..comments2024-03-28T05:55:54.342+00:00Comments on Happy Muslim Mama: Missing GranHappy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-16709310875749892312009-01-15T09:00:00.000+00:002009-01-15T09:00:00.000+00:00Assalam-alaikam Sister Rainbow,Thank you for shari...Assalam-alaikam Sister Rainbow,<BR/>Thank you for sharing, I think you know how I must be feeling and you are right, the best thing we can do now is to pray and give charity in her name.<BR/>(If the kids thought I was heading for their nan's house without them there'd be mutiny)<BR/><BR/>LSS,<BR/>Is that an offer to baby-sit?<BR/><BR/>Assalam-alaikam Anonymous,<BR/>Thank you for your dua's, I think sometimes we underestimate how precious these are.Happy Muslim Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-73166407181704035512009-01-13T12:25:00.000+00:002009-01-13T12:25:00.000+00:00Asalaamu Alaikhum,Your comment left a lump in my t...Asalaamu Alaikhum,<BR/><BR/>Your comment left a lump in my throat, and reminded me of the times when my gran was here too, it will be 3 years next week when she had left us but it easily feels like 3 days. <BR/><BR/>I will make dua's for your nan as well, Inshallah they have reached a much more peacful place xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-81568343145513465322009-01-13T10:35:00.000+00:002009-01-13T10:35:00.000+00:00You ans S and the kids are always welcome to come ...You ans S and the kids are always welcome to come round -just muzzle the kids from time to time!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5398611943115596793.post-49336569508773590992009-01-13T09:28:00.000+00:002009-01-13T09:28:00.000+00:00aslamu alakum loosing a loved one takes time to ge...aslamu alakum <BR/>loosing a loved one takes time to get over , seeing that empty space int he home as empty takes time to get over. I know your pain sister , i lost my father at the age of 5yrs old but i recall, more recently my Dh's sister died and she was the ronak of the family home, when she got married i felt a loss and going to the family home in Algeria was never the same again that barakha had left with her, it took time but we slowly got over it.you see i knpw see these are all the mercy's in life from Allah he was preparing us for far worse when she was killed suddenly this last MAY. Really it was a hard blow for the family and i never thought my Mil would get through this Allah Al Must'aan. Dua for gran is all tat can help her now and charity in her name. The pain, the loss of ronak and sadness will get beter as time is the greatest healer. Be there for mum as she may need you more in these times, perhaps get dh to sit the kids while you pop over if only for an 1hr but more frequent. Sometimes being together helps the grieving process as i witnessed in Algeria.Rainbow In The Grey Skyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11884199498310835920noreply@blogger.com